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Finding Joy in Valentine's Day Treats: A Guilt-Free Guide


Valentine's Day is synonymous with chocolates, candies, and sweet gestures of love. Yet for many, this day of celebration comes with a side of guilt about indulging in treats. Let's explore why it's perfectly okay – and even beneficial – to enjoy your Valentine's Day sweets mindfully.

The Psychology of Special Occasions

Special occasions like Valentine's Day play an important role in our cultural and emotional well-being. When we label certain foods as "forbidden," we often create an unhealthy relationship with them. Instead, recognizing that treats can be part of a balanced lifestyle helps us maintain a healthier approach to eating.

Why It's Okay to Enjoy Valentine's Treats

 1. One Day Doesn't Define Your Health
Your overall health is determined by your regular habits, not by what you eat on a single day. A Valentine's Day celebration won't undo your healthy lifestyle – just like one day of healthy eating won't create lasting health benefits.

2. Social Connection Matters
Sharing treats with loved ones can strengthen social bonds. The joy of exchanging chocolates or sharing a special dessert creates meaningful memories that contribute to our emotional well-being.

 3. Cultural Traditions Have Value
Food traditions, including Valentine's Day sweets, are part of our cultural fabric. Participating in these traditions can bring joy and connection to our lives.

Tips for Mindful Valentine's Day Indulgence

Before the Celebration
- Maintain your regular, balanced meals throughout the day
- Stay hydrated
- Plan which treats you'll truly enjoy, rather than eating everything available

 During the Celebration
- Practice mindful eating – savor each bite
- Share treats with others
- Focus on the experience and company, not just the food

 After Valentine's Day
- Return to your regular eating patterns
- Store leftover treats properly or share them
- Avoid negative self-talk about indulgence

Making Healthier Choices While Still Enjoying Sweets

If you're looking to balance enjoyment with health consciousness, consider these approaches:

- Choose quality over quantity: Opt for higher-quality chocolates or treats that you'll truly savor
- Incorporate dark chocolate, which offers some health benefits
- Balance sweet treats with nutritious foods throughout the day
- Consider making homemade treats where you can control ingredients

 Remember This

Valentine's Day comes once a year. The stress and anxiety of restricting yourself can be more harmful than mindfully enjoying treats. What matters most is your overall pattern of eating throughout the year, not what happens on special occasions.

 Moving Forward

As you celebrate Valentine's Day, remember that food is more than just nutrition – it's part of how we celebrate, connect, and create joy in our lives. Give yourself permission to enjoy the sweetness of the occasion without guilt, knowing that a balanced approach to eating includes room for celebration.

The key isn't to avoid treats altogether but to find your personal balance between enjoyment and overall health goals. This Valentine's Day, focus on the love, joy, and connections that make the day special, and let yourself enjoy those heart-shaped chocolates mindfully and guilt-free.

If you are looking for a special treat this valentines day, and you live near the Long Beach, CA area, register for this special Valentine’s and Chair Massage event this Friday, February 14th from 5-9pm, We would love for you to experience the devine taste of Albert's gourmet chocolates and a healing chair massage. (Photo of chocolates are Alberts Petite Sweets chocolates)


For YEARS I Constantly Worried . . .

 
What would happen if I needed to take over the finances for our family? 

I worried if my body would be able to keep up with the physical demands of my work? 

What would be my plan B be if life took a different turn? 

How would my family and I make it??

As a New England girl who had been living in Southern California for 30 plus years, I never lost my love for keeping it natural. I love good healthy food and being active, like running and hiking  in the great outdoors!! 

I married and soon we had two kids. I have worked as a body-worker for over 30 years despite my 4 total shoulder dislocations and other sports injures. Each day felt like a struggle, physically and mentally just to keep up and manage all the things I really wanted to do. Each day I worked, my back and shoulders would ache and I would need to do a lot of self-care to manage my pain. Practicing bodywork for all these years takes its toll, combined with the joys of being a mature woman; I was ready for my life to be Easier & More Fun!

BUT instead, life got more complicated. I remember the day I receive the call from my doctor and he said those word. “You have skin cancer”.This was after I was told for over 10 years by my doctors, that it was "just eczema." Once I decided to find out for sure if it was eczema, It took me a year of being diligent with the various cortisone creams. When one cream did not work the doctors would give me a stronger one. Luckily, I am now FREE from Cancer! And, I knew I never wanted to hear those words again.

As I aged and the hormonal shifts began to occur, I experienced those lovely side effects like poor sleep, lower energy and lack of focus Now I have alot I plan on doing in the second half of my life and I was determind to find ways to keep my body, pain-free, energized and active! 

After all my fear of missing out was at risk!!

I started on the road to becoming a label reader and took full responsiblity for my health.  I researched and discovered that many of the products that we use in and on our body actually included ingredience that are linked to poor health conditions and disease. So, for the goal of prevention,I started using the best quality food, supplements and products I could find.  These natural products and healthy habits I developed have been proven to keep me physically, mentally and emotionally well. 

So today, I have mental clarity, physical agility and motivation. At 55 years old I am running races, hiking in places like Alaska and having fun with my friends and family!! 

I no longer worry, instead I am excited about creating an adventuous and fullfilling life! I am passionate about sharing hope with other women who are looking to feel fit, fabolus and focused during their empty nester years. I want other women to know, if you want to keep working and be active, you can!! And if your family members need you by their side, you can take time supporting them and be financially OK TOO, there is HOPE! 

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